There are many issues in families, Fairfield Bay, AR, in other communities, in our nation. Sadly, many times these issues are addressed in a very unhealthy manner. There is a better way.
If the spirit of pettiness will be abandoned, if healthy communication tips are implemented and the principles I share in healthy ways to address serious issues are implemented, negativity can be replaced with positivity. Positive solutions can be implemented to resolve some serious issues.
In the past I shared Tips on Healthy Communication:
One, speak the truth in love.
Two, watch the words you speak.
Three, speak with kindness.
Four, be aware of body language.
Five, have empathy.
Six, be concise.
Seven, avoid anger and resentment.
Eight, listen actively.
Nine, seek forgiveness and reconciliation.
The following are tips on How to Address Issues in a Healthy Manner:
Invite participation, not demand.
Face-to-face conversation
Make it safe.
Strong emotions are okay to share if done properly.
Stay focused.
Check you’re heart. Start with facts, not judgments or opinions.
Check in. Do not focus on convincing. Do not be apologetic.
Be curious and humble.
End on a positive note.
Our number one motive for addressing issues should be out of a spirit of love and concern.
Pray for more civil communication, more humble and respectful communication in regard to the hot topics of the day.